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Mettre en perspective la sanction dans l’univers du BDSM

Règles et sanctions

Dans le cadre d’une relation BDSM, la punition dépasse le simple fait de faire mal : elle obéit à des règles précises et revêt une forte signification dans un rapport de domination assumé entre une femme dominante et un homme soumis. Le bdsm explore plusieurs types de punitions, allant de la fessée au silence imposé ou au port d’un signe distinctif. Ces pratiques codifiées visent la stabilité du couple et la satisfaction des deux partenaires.

Explorer les types de punitions et leurs objectifs

La fessée, la chasteté imposée, les postures de contrainte ou le silence dirigé sont autant d’outils utilisés dans le sadomaso pour réaffirmer la hiérarchie et canaliser les émotions. Ces sanctions consensuelles traversent les genres et nourrissent la dynamique D/s.

Garantir une récupération émotionnelle et physique optimale

la fonction première de la discipline

La sanction en contexte SM, pratiquée avec soin, empathie et créativité, se révèle un puissant vecteur de lien émotionnel, de discipline et de plaisir partagé. Dans les couples homme soumis/femme dominante, elle forge une dynamique érotique intense et spécifique.

Veiller à l’apaisement émotionnel après la séance

S’accorder un moment d’échange sur ce qui a plu ou dérangé, ce qui a fonctionné ou non, permet de préparer au mieux les futures pratiques et de renforcer la connexion. L’aftercare constitue un espace de soin mutuel, de respect et d’ancrage, transformant la scène SM en un acte riche en humanité et partage. Dans le cadre du BDSM, l’aftercare est indispensable après une scène ou une punition intense. Il vise à apaiser, réconforter et fortifier la relation. Plusieurs rituels existent : un câlin enveloppant pour apporter chaleur et sécurité, un mot tendre pour rassurer, ou un bain chaud et un massage pour détendre le corps et prolonger la douceur du lien. L’aftercare est indispensable après une sanction sadomaso, surtout si celle-ci est intense. La personne soumise doit vivre une palette d’émotions fortes — honte, soulagement, euphorie, tristesse — qui méritent d’être entendues et soutenues.

Placer la punition au cœur des jeux bdsm

Savoir mêler douleur et plaisir pour enrichir l’expérience

La douleur, dans la pratique de la sanction BDSM, n’est pas une finalité mais un outil qui soutient une liaison émotionnelle et psychologique complexe. Employée avec discernement, elle amène la personne soumise à un véritable lâcher-prise, une remise volontaire et consciente entre les mains de la dominante ou du dominant. Ce geste, loin d’être un signe de faiblesse, renforce la confiance et le lien. En outre, la douleur doit provoquer une intensité émotionnelle forte, parfois cathartique, en permettant de libérer des émotions cachées et de vivre un état mental modifié. La douleur dépasse le simple ressenti sensoriel pour devenir un vecteur de sensations intenses et personnelles. Ce partage intensifie la liaison entre dominant et soumis, qui repose sur la confiance, le respect des limites et la volonté commune d’explorer ensemble, en sécurité. Ce qui compte n’est pas la douleur brute, mais ce qu’elle révèle et construit dans la relation sadomaso. Lire avec attention les réactions physiques et émotionnelles du soumis est indispensable : un excès de douleur tue le plaisir, un déficit le rend inefficace. La référence incontournable pour tout ce qui touche à la punition est cette page.

Les formes et instruments appliqués lors de la punition

Dans l’optique de diversifier les sensations, l’utilisation de pinces, de bougies ou de cordes peut être envisagée, apportant une stimulation différente et un contrôle accru. Ces accessoires, choisis minutieusement, permettent de façonner la punition en un rituel commun, riche en puissance et en sensualité, où le désir découle autant de la scénographie que de l’action. Dans la sphère bdsm, la sanction s’intègre souvent dans des scénarios ou jeux de rôle, ajoutant une couche théâtrale et psychologique à la relation de domination et soumission. Ces mises en scène symbolisent le pouvoir dans un cadre consensuel et codifié. La dominante peut, par exemple, incarner une cheffe stricte et punir son employé pour une faute fictive, renforçant son autorité par la fiction. De même, une maîtresse doit corriger son esclave masculin pour une désobéissance, accentuant le contraste entre contrôle et soumission. Certains pratiquent un « tribunal bdsm » où le soumis est jugé selon des règles prédéfinies et puni sur un verdict scénarisé. Ces jeux offrent une riche exploration érotique et émotionnelle. Les instruments employés varient en fonction de l’intensité recherchée : la fessée à main nue, intime et directe, ou la canne, le martinet et la paddle pour une douleur plus importante et ciblée.

Organiser une relation de pouvoir saine et équilibrée

La base solide que forment la confiance et le consentement

La définition précise des limites est indispensable : ce qui doit être toléré, ce qui est limite, et ce qui ne l’est pas. Ces balises permettent d’adapter la sévérité de la punition selon les accords et de préserver la confiance. Il est également nécessaire de choisir les comportements dignes d’une sanction, afin que la punition conserve sa valeur, soit exceptionnelle et juste, et ne tombe pas dans la banalité ou l’arbitraire. C’est cette rigueur d’écoute, de préparation et d’intention qui fait de la punition un levier fort dans la relation dominant·e/soumis·e, quel que soit le genre ou la configuration relationnelle. Imposer une punition dans le BDSM demande une connaissance précise de son ou sa partenaire soumis·e. Cela garantit que la pratique se déroule dans un cadre sécurisé, consensuel et érotique, respectant à la fois les désirs et les fragilités émotionnelles. Le fondement d’une liaison bdsm, surtout en soumission masculine, repose sur le consentement. La partenaire dominante doit pouvoir compter sur la confiance entière de son soumis, construite grâce à une communication ouverte sur les attentes et limites.

Usage des safewords et application des normes de sécurité

Communiquer est primordial : il faut impérativement convenir avant toute séance des limites, des envies et des territoires d’exploration, puis prendre le temps de débriefer après pour évoquer ressentis, possibles modifications et vécus respectifs. Ces précautions ne brident pas le jeu, elles le renforcent, en garantissant la sécurité physique et émotionnelle des partenaires et en favorisant une circulation fluide du pouvoir dans un climat de confiance. Pour approfondir vos connaissances, des ressources spécifiques sont à votre disposition en particulier le site punish.life, en mettant à disposition des données fiables et un service concret de punition, facilite l’initiation à la punition. Pour assurer la sécurité dans les jeux sadomaso avec sanctions ou dynamiques de pouvoir, il est impératif de respecter certains principes clés. Le safeword, mot simple à prononcer mais peu courant dans un contexte érotique, comme « rouge », doit être choisi pour servir de signal d’arrêt clair. Il permet au soumis de reprendre le contrôle si une limite est franchie, garantissant ainsi le respect du consentement. Il est aussi recommandé de prévoir un protocole précis pour stopper toute activité en cas d’urgence, que ce soit par un mot, un geste ou un signe convenu, surtout lorsque la communication verbale est restreinte. Le safeword constitue le dernier recours sécuritaire. Il offre à la personne soumise le pouvoir d’arrêter la rencontre en cas de dépassement des limites. Sans ce signal, la punition bdsm doit devenir abusive. Le centre névralgique de l’actualité autour de la punition est www.punish.life.

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Retranscription des paroles de la vidéo: Hey guys, welcome to a weekly story time. If you like these story time videos, definitely like this video. Um, subscribe if you’re not already and leave a comment. All of those things really do help out the channel. And if you want to support what we’re doing even further, get bonus content, dive deeper into the topic of domestic discipline, the best place to do that is over on Patreon. So, I’m going to leave a link to our Patreon down below if you’re interested. On this week’s story time, I’m going to be talking about my most recent punishment. Just when I didn’t think that um Cota could spank any harder, he surprised me and definitely delivered. I ended up being pretty disrespectful. Um in hindsight, I was extremely disrespectful and so I had earned a punishment. I was not prepared. even when you know what to expect, you’re not really prepared. And so, we get to the point in the day where the punishment’s going to happen. And you know there wasn’t much of a lecture because we had kind of talked extensively about what had happened the situation um what was expected but he did you know give me a lecture and very sternly tell me that I would never be allowed to speak to him the way I spoke to him and that um it was completely unacceptable which it absolutely was. And so he gave me that lecture and then we started the punishment. I was completely taken back. Um like I said, you’re never prepared going in, but it was like the first contact of that paddle just took my breath away. It was so much. Um, Cotto definitely made sure that he did not um go light. He was he was definitely making a point and as he should. I my behavior was appalling to be completely honest. Um, I should have never spoken to him that way. Um, that was really the crux of the issue is that I spoke to him completely inappropriately. And so he wanted to make sure that I learned my lesson. And so he um you know the way we were doing the way we’re doing punishments now is that we use like the zone system where we have the four zones. That’s not new, but he just was doing a minute in each zone. We cut the time down, but he increased his like speed of delivery and he increased the intensity and so it was a lot to take and he was making sure that he um was very thorough in the coverage. So he was like covering the entire area and he even like you know made sure that he was distributing the force in enough of a surface area that he wasn’t causing any undue damage to any spot. And so that just meant that there was a lot of there were a lot of areas that he spanked during this particular punishment that he doesn’t typically. What I mean by that is more of like the side where like it’s almost my hip. It’s not my hip. It’s still my bottom, but it’s almost my hip. And so that’s just an area that doesn’t get spanked a whole lot. And so that felt really intense. And then he um you know the the zones are you know to include my upper thighs and so he you know that is always very intense. So if we get through the zones and I am just like I’m regretting all of my life choices. I have completely broken to the process at this point. I am just like so apologetic. So just like so yielded to the process, but it’s not over because it wouldn’t be over at that point. And so the next step to our punishment is that he uh was went to the cane and we used to have a system where he would like count the cane strokes. That is not the case anymore. We went to a completely timed system now. And so it was a minute on each side with the cane. So two minutes total with the cane. And that was very intense. Um, and honestly like I it was really hard to take. It was something that he um again just did not hold back. He wanted to make sure that he was making a point. And so he did the he did the cane for one minute um on my left side and it was just like the burning sensation of a cane. It just it’s a lot to take. Um, and I thought that that was like going to be so terrible, but then he moved to my left side and my left side was equally as terrible, if not more terrible. And so when he was done with the cane, I was just like my whole like bottom just felt like it was just on fire. It really was just like terrible. But it wasn’t over. Um, because of course it wasn’t. And so he then moved on to the loop. And again, we are on a completely timed system now. So it was a minute on each side with the loop. And so he started on my left side. And oh my goodness, like the loop is worse than the cane in my opinion. We have a braided loop. I don’t know if that makes a difference. Probably um just because the the contact surface is so different. And so he actually goes harder with the loop than he does the cane. I think mostly because he knows like that he can um without causing any undue damage to my skin. And he is very careful to make sure that he is accurate in his delivery. He’s very careful to make sure that he is um oh having even coverage so he’s not hitting the same spot over and over again. he is making sure that he moves it around to where it will um you know evenly distribute the force that I’m feeling. But it was terrible. It was so awful. I was like it was so hard to take. Um did I deserve every single bit of it? Yes, absolutely I did. My behavior was was way over the top. So it made sense that this punishment was way over the top. Um, it was well beyond my limits. It was well beyond um what I could handle, but it was well within what I deserved and it was well within um what was safe. And so Cota was keeping me safe and I can trust him to keep me safe throughout this entire process. I can trust him to keep me safe when he is disciplining me. And so I wasn’t I didn’t feel unsafe. I didn’t feel uncared for. In fact, I felt very cared for throughout the whole process. But he was very stoic. Um he does not talk during my spankings anymore at all. He used to um that’s something that he stopped doing because it was something that he saw as being detrimental to the process. So he does not talk at all. He finished the loop on the left side. Now I am a sobbing mess. I am absolutely regretting how I spoke to him. I’m regretting um thinking that that was ever okay and realizing how not okay it really was and he moved to my left or he moved to my right side and repeated the process. Did a minute with the loop on that side. It was so intense. Um because he was just going really hard with the loop. He again was increased his um pacing and so he goes so fast. He um within a minute he delivers around 100 strokes. Um so 2 minutes of the cane is like 200 strokes with the cane. 2 minutes with the loop is like 200 strokes with the loop. And so on the left side he was delivering the loop on that side. There was one point where he um because he usually comes from the side like he comes down from the side and there was one point where he stood behind me and was coming like straight down with the loop and um it just felt really terrible. By the time he was done with the loop, I was just beside myself. My like I felt so sore. I felt so like just so completely thoroughly punished at that point. But he wasn’t done. Um now he like this is brand new to our punishment system. We’ve never done this before where now at the end of that process, the paddle cane loop, he goes back to the paddle and he does a minute on each side with the paddle. And this last round of a minute on each side, he does full force um swats with the paddle. And so he goes in pretty much as hard as as hard as he feels is safe um to just drive home the point and purpose of punishment. And he makes sure that like throughout this last minute he made sure that every single part of my bottom that was safe to spank was covered. um from the top from you know my upper thigh to my bottom was completely covered with the paddle at that point. Um, again, he’s going so fast and so hard and it just is driving home that point, putting an exclamation point on the process. And he finished on my right side, moved to my left side, did the left side. It felt completely unbearable at this point. Um, I was completely yielded to the process. I was such I was like I was so ready to be done, but not only just to be done with the punishment, but I was so remorseful for what got me to that point. Like I was so sorry for how I behaved. I was I was just so submissive to Cota in that moment. And so he finished the the spanking. The two sides of the paddle were done. The spanking was over. Um, so he what he does is after the spanking’s over, he tells me that I can get up when I’m ready. Um, I was not ready to get up right away. I just stayed in position and I just cried for a good few minutes. I um then stood up and I wasn’t ready uh to go to him at that point just yet. And I just like I stood up and I cried for another minute or two. I went and I got a tissue. I drank some water. And then then we embraced and Cota hugged me and I just apologized and I told him how sorry I was that I will never speak to him that way again. that I don’t know what got into me, but it was completely unacceptable and I know that it was unacceptable and he did not deserve that from me. You know, just the most sincere apology, right? Um, and I meant every word of it. Absolutely. I still mean every word of it. I will, you know, it is not going to be my intention to ever repeat that behavior ever again. And um you know, part of the motivation behind that is that I don’t want to repeat that punishment ever again. But more importantly, I don’t want to ever make my husband feel disrespected in that way ever again. And that is really the point and purpose of going through this process is to get to the point where I respect him and I honor him to the point that I will never let myself go there ever again. He forgave me. He reiterated that, you know, that this is done. He forgives me. he expects more from me and he knows that I’m capable of doing more and that he knows that I will do better in the future. And we just hugged. He let me cry. Uh we went inside cuz we have our studio space where we do punishments just for privacy sake for um some separation from from our house where our child is. And so we went inside and just cuddled in bed for a long time. And I that was very enjoyable. I really enjoyed reconnecting with him in that way where you know he just I don’t even think we talked a lot. Um just the physical connection to have his like warm and gentle embrace to know that all was right between us again and that my mistake did not completely derail our relationship. Because in the past when um things like this would happen before domestic discipline, it would be like days and days of just tension and now that can be handled and rectified in um about 15 minutes and then we are back to our a point of reconciliation in our relationship again. So hope that you enjoyed that story time. It was a very intense punishment. It was probably the hardest punishment that I’ve ever received. Um, rightfully so because uh, respect is a huge huge uh, level of importance in our relationship and it is probably one of the worst things that I could do is disrespect my husband. So, since it’s one of the worst things that I can do, it’s one of the worst punishments I can receive. And so, this definitely uh, was one of the worst punishments I ever received. And I um hopefully will not make that mistake anytime soon or ever again. So, hope you enjoyed this and I will talk to you guys next .

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0.48 Hey guys, welcome to a weekly story
2.48 time. If you like these story time
4.48 videos, definitely like this video. Um,
7.44 subscribe if you’re not already and
9.2 leave a comment. All of those things
10.639 really do help out the channel. And if
13.12 you want to support what we’re doing
14.96 even further, get bonus content, dive
17.039 deeper into the topic of domestic
18.96 discipline, the best place to do that is
21.199 over on Patreon. So, I’m going to leave
23.439 a link to our Patreon down below if
25.6 you’re
26.359 interested. On this week’s story time,
28.64 I’m going to be talking about my most
30.48 recent
31.559 punishment. Just when I didn’t think
33.76 that um Cota could spank any harder, he
37.28 surprised me and definitely delivered. I
40.239 ended up being pretty disrespectful. Um
44.0 in hindsight, I was extremely
46.84 disrespectful and so I had earned a
50.2 punishment.
52.12 I was not prepared. even when you know
55.28 what to expect, you’re not really
56.8 prepared. And so, we get to the point in
58.719 the day where the punishment’s going to
60.079 happen. And you know there wasn’t much
63.28 of a lecture because we had kind of
65.68 talked extensively about what had
68.08 happened the situation um what was
71.24 expected but he did you know give me a
74.32 lecture and very sternly tell me that I
77.36 would never be allowed to speak to him
79.6 the way I spoke to him and that um it
83.04 was completely unacceptable which it
84.96 absolutely was. And so he gave me that
89.32 lecture and then we started the
93.0 punishment.
95.32 I was completely taken back. Um like I
100.32 said, you’re never prepared going in,
102.96 but it was like the first contact of
106.96 that paddle just took my breath away. It
110.159 was so much. Um, Cotto definitely made
114.079 sure that he did not um go light. He was
118.799 he was definitely making a point and as
121.36 he should. I my behavior was appalling
124.719 to be completely honest. Um, I should
127.759 have never spoken to him that way. Um,
131.12 that was really the crux of the issue is
133.52 that I spoke to him completely
136.04 inappropriately. And so he wanted to
139.36 make sure that I learned my
142.04 lesson. And so he um you know the way we
148.239 were doing the way we’re doing
150.16 punishments now is that we use like the
153.36 zone system where we have the four
155.28 zones. That’s not new, but he just was
158.16 doing a minute in each zone. We cut the
160.4 time down, but he increased his like
164.239 speed of delivery and he increased the
167.12 intensity and so it was a lot to take
169.84 and he was making sure that he um was
173.28 very thorough in the coverage. So he was
176.72 like covering the entire area and he
180.72 even like you know made sure that he was
185.92 distributing the force in enough of a
189.599 surface area that he wasn’t causing any
191.599 undue damage to any spot. And so that
196.0 just meant that there was a lot
198.12 of there were a lot of areas that he
200.64 spanked during this particular
202.319 punishment that he doesn’t typically.
204.56 What I mean by that is more of like the
206.64 side where like it’s almost my hip. It’s
209.76 not my hip. It’s still my bottom, but
211.599 it’s almost my hip. And so that’s just
213.599 an area that doesn’t get spanked a whole
215.28 lot. And so that felt really
218.2 intense. And then he um you know the the
223.12 zones are you know to include my upper
226.64 thighs and so he you know that is always
231.36 very intense. So if we get through the
233.76 zones and I am just like I’m regretting
237.28 all of my life choices. I have
240.64 completely broken to the process at this
243.04 point. I am just
245.959 like so apologetic. So just like so
251.84 yielded to the
253.4 process, but it’s not over because it
256.32 wouldn’t be over at that point. And so
258.799 the next step to our punishment is that
261.519 he uh was went to the cane and we used
267.199 to have a system where he would like
269.36 count the cane strokes. That is not the
271.6 case anymore. We went to a completely
273.44 timed system now. And so it was a minute
276.96 on each side with the cane. So two
279.04 minutes total with the cane.
281.8 And that was very intense.
285.24 Um, and honestly like I it was really
290.16 hard to take. It was something that he
293.68 um again just did not hold back. He
296.32 wanted to make sure that he was making a
298.16 point. And so he did the he did the cane
302.32 for one minute um on my left side and it
305.12 was just like the burning sensation of a
307.84 cane. It just it’s a lot to take. Um,
312.72 and I thought that that was like going
315.44 to be so terrible, but then he moved to
317.759 my left side and my left side was
319.52 equally as terrible, if not more
322.12 terrible. And so when he was done with
324.4 the cane, I was just
328.199 like my whole like bottom just felt like
332.16 it was just on fire. It really was just
335.28 like terrible. But it wasn’t over. Um,
338.96 because of course it wasn’t. And so he
342.32 then moved on to the loop. And again, we
344.4 are on a completely timed system now. So
346.479 it was a minute on each side with the
348.4 loop. And so he started on my left side.
351.199 And oh my goodness, like the loop is
354.479 worse than the cane in my opinion. We
356.88 have a braided loop. I don’t know if
358.479 that makes a difference. Probably um
360.96 just because the the contact surface is
364.72 so different. And so he actually goes
368.08 harder with the loop than he does the
369.8 cane. I think mostly because he knows
372.639 like that he can um without causing any
376.639 undue damage to my skin. And he is very
380.08 careful to make sure that he is accurate
382.8 in his delivery. He’s very careful to
385.039 make sure that he is um oh having even
389.12 coverage so he’s not hitting the same
390.96 spot over and over again. he is making
393.44 sure that he moves it around to where it
395.919 will um you know evenly distribute the
399.52 force that I’m
401.08 feeling. But it was terrible. It was so
404.88 awful. I was like it was so hard to
408.24 take. Um did I deserve every single bit
411.759 of it? Yes, absolutely I did. My
414.4 behavior was was way over the top. So it
416.96 made sense that this punishment was way
418.96 over the top. Um, it was well beyond my
422.88 limits. It was well beyond
425.88 um what I could handle, but it was well
431.16 within what I deserved and it was well
434.16 within um what was safe. And so Cota was
438.0 keeping me safe and I can trust him to
440.24 keep me safe throughout this entire
442.0 process. I can trust him to keep me safe
445.199 when he is disciplining me. And so I
448.28 wasn’t I didn’t feel unsafe. I didn’t
451.039 feel uncared for. In fact, I felt very
453.199 cared for throughout the whole process.
455.68 But he was very stoic. Um he does not
459.599 talk during my spankings anymore at all.
462.56 He used to um that’s something that he
464.88 stopped doing because it was something
466.16 that he saw as being detrimental to the
469.24 process. So he does not talk at all. He
473.68 finished the loop on the left side.
476.479 Now I am a sobbing mess. I am absolutely
481.28 regretting how I spoke to him. I’m
483.28 regretting um thinking that that was
485.68 ever okay and realizing how not okay it
489.52 really
490.44 was
492.039 and he moved to my left or he moved to
495.12 my right
496.28 side and repeated the process. Did a
500.16 minute with the loop on that side. It
502.56 was so intense.
504.84 Um because he was just going really hard
507.52 with the loop. He again was increased
511.52 his um pacing and so he goes so fast. He
518.64 um within a minute he delivers around
522.0 100 strokes. Um so 2 minutes of the cane
525.92 is like 200 strokes with the cane. 2
528.32 minutes with the loop is like 200
530.16 strokes with the loop. And so on the
533.36 left side he was delivering the loop on
536.56 that side. There was one point where he
540.32 um because he usually comes from the
543.279 side like he comes down from the side
546.32 and there was one point where he stood
547.92 behind me and was coming like straight
551.04 down with the loop and um it just felt
554.64 really terrible. By the time he was done
557.2 with the loop, I was just beside
560.44 myself.
561.959 My like I felt so sore. I felt so like
568.48 just so completely thoroughly punished
571.2 at that point. But he wasn’t done. Um
575.279 now he like this is brand new to our
578.48 punishment system. We’ve never done this
580.16 before where now at the end of that
584.399 process, the paddle cane loop, he goes
587.839 back to the paddle and he does a minute
590.72 on each side with the paddle. And this
594.44 last round of a minute on each side, he
599.44 does full force um swats with the
602.72 paddle. And so he goes in pretty much as
606.8 hard as as hard as he feels is safe um
610.399 to just drive home the point and purpose
614.0 of
614.839 punishment. And he makes sure that like
619.2 throughout this last minute he made sure
622.24 that every single part of my bottom that
627.04 was safe to spank was covered. um from
630.64 the top from you know my upper thigh to
633.68 my bottom was completely covered with
636.72 the paddle at that point. Um, again,
640.079 he’s going so fast and so hard and it
645.839 just is driving home that point, putting
648.24 an exclamation point on the process. And
652.8 he finished on my right side, moved to
655.6 my left side, did the left side. It felt
659.079 completely unbearable at this point. Um,
663.68 I was completely yielded to the process.
666.0 I was such I was like I was so ready to
671.68 be done, but not only just to be done
674.48 with the punishment, but I was so
677.519 remorseful
679.0 for what got me to that point. Like I
682.16 was so sorry for how I behaved. I was I
685.36 was just so submissive to Cota in that
687.76 moment. And so he finished the the
690.44 spanking. The two sides of the paddle
692.8 were done. The spanking was over.
696.12 Um, so he what he does is after the
699.92 spanking’s over, he tells me that I can
702.0 get up when I’m
703.399 ready.
705.32 Um,
707.079 I was not ready to get up right away. I
710.399 just stayed in position and I just cried
713.92 for a good few minutes. I um then stood
719.399 up and I wasn’t ready uh to go to him at
725.44 that point just yet. And I just like I
728.48 stood up and I cried for another minute
730.56 or two. I went and I got a tissue. I
734.079 drank some water. And then then we
737.6 embraced and Cota hugged me and I just
740.32 apologized and I told him how sorry I
742.48 was that I will never speak to him that
745.04 way again. that I don’t know what got
747.68 into me, but it was completely
749.36 unacceptable and I know that it was
751.2 unacceptable and he did not deserve that
753.36 from me. You know, just the most sincere
756.32 apology, right? Um, and I meant every
758.88 word of it. Absolutely. I still mean
762.0 every word of it. I will, you know, it
764.32 is not going to be my intention to ever
766.32 repeat that behavior ever again. And um
771.04 you know, part of the motivation behind
772.56 that is that I don’t want to repeat that
774.24 punishment ever again. But more
776.639 importantly, I don’t want to ever make
779.04 my husband feel disrespected in that way
781.839 ever again. And that is really the point
786.16 and purpose of going through this
788.16 process is to get to the point where I
791.12 respect him and I honor him to the point
793.72 that I will never let myself go there
797.76 ever
798.839 again. He forgave me. He reiterated
801.68 that, you know, that this is done. He
804.959 forgives me. he expects more from me and
807.44 he knows that I’m capable of doing more
809.92 and that he knows that I will do better
812.16 in the future. And we just hugged. He
814.56 let me cry. Uh we went inside cuz we
818.16 have our studio space where we do
820.0 punishments just for privacy sake for um
824.56 some separation from from our house
826.88 where our child is. And so we went
830.32 inside and just cuddled in bed for a
833.36 long time. And I that was very
837.199 enjoyable. I really enjoyed reconnecting
839.519 with him in that way where you know he
842.76 just I don’t even think we talked a lot.
846.6 Um just the physical connection to have
850.959 his like warm and gentle embrace to know
855.639 that all was right between us again and
859.199 that my mistake did not completely
861.6 derail our relationship. Because in the
863.68 past when um things like this would
866.56 happen before domestic discipline, it
869.04 would be like days and days of just
871.88 tension and now that can be handled and
875.68 rectified in um about 15 minutes and
879.92 then we are back to our a point of
882.88 reconciliation in our relationship
884.639 again.
886.279 So hope that you enjoyed that story
889.279 time. It was a very intense punishment.
891.44 It was probably the hardest punishment
893.36 that I’ve ever received. Um, rightfully
896.0 so because uh, respect is a huge huge
901.8 uh, level of importance in our
904.16 relationship and it is probably one of
906.48 the worst things that I could do is
907.839 disrespect my husband. So, since it’s
910.079 one of the worst things that I can do,
911.839 it’s one of the worst punishments I can
913.76 receive. And so, this definitely uh, was
916.959 one of the worst punishments I ever
918.639 received. And I um hopefully will not
923.279 make that mistake anytime soon or ever
927.04 again. So, hope you enjoyed this and I
930.72 will talk to you guys next
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